You are the master of your own destiny

There is a friend, who just told me that, his wife is willing and 100% looking forward to become a full time mummy(her dream) and if possible, he also wish that too, work from home, can take care the kids themselves.

His analysis on me who don't really want to be full-time mummy when my 1st kid  is born, because I'm not yet fully enjoy my working life (about 6yrs) and turn to be a full-time mummy at home, while their working life are a double up years compare with me, thus they are down with the working lifestyle and don't mind to be a full-time mummy.

I won't deny his points, well, probably he is right too but I can't comment much in that point yet, bcoz yes, it's only 6years for me, but how do I know if I worked for 13/15/20 years, what choices I would prefer?

What came across my mind is nothing is so call a "fully enjoy" in this world, regardless of work, eat, travel and etc. There is different stage and different responsibility to be carry in our every stages. Even I got everything, I might not feel happy though. What I learn from recent year, is satisfaction (知足常乐) and cherish what you have.

So, for me, human do has every stage to learn, overcome the obstacles and adjust ourselves to adapt the lifestyle. If from now on, I am still a working mummy, probably I'm tired on working in the daytime, taking care kids and household in the night time, or even if I am a breastfeed mother, busy ppumping even in the midnight. And probably I start to jealous and think of quitting the job. 

Also, we are not control by the life but we control and adjust our life. I've learned, instead of blaming the life, I should take my own action to create my colourful life. That's why I started my blogging, pick up my determination to finish my half done work (selling my maternity clothes thru various social media). 

And, miracles come to me. I might got an part time job offer, my clothes was selling out slowly, my kids are all well take care by me. I see sunshine everyday instead of a grey clouds.

It is all because I learn that "You are the master of your own destiny."